Somatic Shadow Work Coaching that bridges the gap between knowing and living.

You already know why you do what you do. This is where we begin changing your relationship with it.

Shadow Work

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Shadow Work ⋆˙⟡

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What is 1:1 Somatic Shadow Work Coaching?

This isn’t talk therapy, mindset coaching, or another healing program that leaves you with more awareness but the same patterns.

If you’ve done the self-development work and still feel stuck in cycles of overthinking, people-pleasing, emotional shutdown, self-sabotage, or disconnection from yourself, you’re not broken. Awareness alone just isn’t enough.

Most healing approaches work from the neck up.

Somatic Shadow Work Coaching goes deeper.

Together, we work with your nervous system, your body, and the unconscious patterns driving the way you think, feel, react, and relate. Because your patterns are not random. They are protective responses your body learned for survival.

Through shadow work, somatic practices, nervous system regulation, and deep personalised coaching, this work helps you move beyond simply understanding yourself and into embodied, lasting change.

This is how you stop surviving yourself and start feeling genuinely connected, safe, and alive again.

I finally learned how to give myself the compassion I was looking for everywhere else.

Steph shares how shadow work helped her stop outsourcing her worth and start taking ownership of the parts of herself she used to turn away from.

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Ready to find out if this is the right fit?

First step is filling out the Interest Form and then we will connect with you to book your Free Connection Call.

A connection call is a 30-minute conversation — no pressure, no pitch. Just an honest look at where you are and whether working together makes sense.

Is this for you?

You might be someone who:

  • Shows up for everyone around you and does it well, but somewhere in the doing, you lost the thread back to yourself

  • Carries an exhaustion that runs deeper than tiredness. The kind that lives in your bones and doesn't go away no matter how much you rest

  • Knows intuitively that there is more to life than this, but can't quite access it from where you are right now

  • Has done the therapy, the personal development, the self-help work and still feels like something fundamental hasn't moved

  • Struggles to name what you actually want, what you actually feel, or what you actually need. Not because you're not self-aware, but because somewhere along the way you stopped being asked

And what you're really longing for:

  • To wake up and not immediately feel the weight of everything you're carrying

  • To finally feel like you can breathe. Not because life got easier, but because you're no longer holding it all alone

  • To make space for yourself without feeling like you're taking something away from someone else

  • To stop feeling responsible for how everyone around you feels and to know in your body, not just your head, that their emotions are not yours to carry

  • To make decisions that actually benefit you and feel completely at peace with that

Our Process

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Somatics

learning to listen to your body, process emotions safely, and reconnect with yourself beyond overthinking and survival mode

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Shadow Work

uncovering the unconscious patterns, protective responses, fears, and coping mechanisms that quietly shape your life and relationships

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Nervous System

helping your body move out of chronic stress, hypervigilance, shutdown, and emotional overwhelm so you can feel safer within yourself

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Self Reclamation

Releasing the version of you built around survival, people-pleasing, perfectionism, or over-responsibility and reconnecting with who you actually are

1:1 Coaching Testimonial

Jen is a coach and entrepreneur who wanted more than surface-level growth. This is her experience after our first three months together.

No two coaching containers are the same because no two women carry the same stories, conditioning, or survival patterns.

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Coaching Containers

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Past 1:1 Clients


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"I cannot even find the words to explain how huge this process shift was today. My whole body was tingling and vibrating and once I opened my eyes, it just felt like this huge weight had been lifted from my entire body from the inside out. I feel like a completely different person right now."

— Leesa, 1:1 Coaching Client (12 months)

Sydney, Australia


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"Working with Lurinda has easily been the best and most transformational investment I've ever made in myself. In just 3 short months, I've reached depths within myself that I've never been able to safely access before, and I'm walking away with an entirely new understanding of who I am as a human and what I'm truly capable of. I feel more empowered than I ever have before, and I 100% attribute that to Lurinda's support."

— Jen, 1:1 Coaching (6 months) America

Creator & Mentor - lovelylion.co


First of all, thank you so much for all your guidance and support, not only that, but especially for creating a non-judgmental & safe space where I could fully express myself and let the parts of myself that needed to be seen and heard to come forward. Lurinda is such a lovely soul, working with her these past few months was lots of joy but also A LOT of tears hehe, but I feel it helped me see where I was being too hard on myself, still punishing myself for things of the past & to know that deep down it was all me trying to protect myself. If you wanna work on your BS and bring to light to nurture & integrate, Lurinda is your girl. I highly recommend her. Honestly, I am sad it's over, but I feel it's a see you soon. LOVE YOU AMANDA

— Amanda, 1:1 Coaching (3 months) Germany

Facilitator - energywithamanda

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